The consequences of so many of us feeling the way you describe…you are SO right.

Intellectually some of us get it . Then at the same time, we clamp hands over our ears while our guts ignite vocal cords and we belt out songs like “Bar-bar-bar-bar-Barbara-ann” to muffle the noise.

How do we proactively get past this? ( Do I really want to hear the answer to my question?)