My dear, amazing, insightful Medium friend. You are NOT the only one. Not even close.

And this from someone who does not have children (by personal choice) and who took forever to find a relationship that works the way that 2+2= 6 or 10 or whatever higher number. Not 2+2=1 0r some minus number.

I am such a big believer in "no shoulds". (well, of course I exclude criminal and harmful acts!) What works for me does not need to work for someone else. Maybe parts of my paths chosen are useful to someone else to examine, but they do not have to be. I support it all being about "choice" ( makes sense when you really think of it... and yeah, if someone thinks "choice" is irrelevant well...that is a legitimate choice too!) All this is my belief including allowing for constraints against one's choices.

So Robin girl, stick to your guns. Drown out the noise that brings you down. I am so impressed with your focus and drive.

I think I have your email and will drop a note. If not, here is mine vtanme@gmail.com

😍⭐️