Great new profile pic, Dennett. Perfect plan.
Just to share: my husband, here I call him Mr Suze( MSZ) has a very kind face, very similar to Ben ( your Captain Argentina). And with both our guys, personalities to match the look.
And MSZ often wears a fedora. We have been together only 10 years, ten good ones. As I read about you and Ben, as much as I wish you two had more time together, I am so happy for you both that you had the time that you did.
More big hugs to you, girl.